I have a two part series for you today – all about getting financially ready for a baby. I’ve been asked this question by a college friend but I think there are many women who wonder about this. How can I be financially prepared to start my family even before I am pregnant?
If you are reading this article, it’s because you are interested in having a family someday and you want to be as financially responsible as you can. Well done! It is an admirable goal and one that I shared. If you’re already pregnant, you still have 9 months (more or less) to tackle these goals as well. Anything you do before the baby is born will help you after the baby is born!
For those of you unfamiliar, let me start by sharing our story in a nutshell. My husband and I married when we were a bit older (30 and 27 respectively) and waited a bit before having children. Then, we struggled with infertility before actually getting pregnant. Our son was born almost 5 years after we were married. We were overjoyed to become pregnant again, and our daughter is due in March of this year, almost 2 years after her brother.
My husband and I learned a lot the first time around, especially since we were determined that I would stay home with our children. Even so, we’re learning again the second time around as we financially prepare before the next baby arrives.
Here are 5 financial planning tips you can tackle before you are pregnant. (If you are already pregnant, tackle these tips and read more in the follow-up to this article, Financial Planning When You Are Pregnant.) This is what we did to financially prepare for our babies.
1. Pay off all your debt – or as much as you can. This makes such a difference because it will give you so much freedom! Put this at the top of your list to get ready for a baby. We worked hard at this and only had a bit of debt remaining on the Tahoe when our son was born and paid it off when he was 9 months old, so we are now debt free (except our mortgage). It’s a wonderful feeling, and makes staying home easier on the budget too, when you don’t have debt payments.
2. Build an emergency fund with 3 months expenses, especially if either spouse plans on staying home with baby. And by 3 months, calculate just the absolutely necessary expenses. This is different for every family. For us, we set a $5000 goal for our emergency fund, knowing we had an additional $5000 that we can access as cash value in old life insurance policies, in the case of a true emergency. At the very minimum, I recommend having at least $1000 in an emergency fund before baby is born.
3. Establish a budget and live within your means. Maybe you are already living quite frugally (as we were) but I know it was the reality of getting pregnant that finally convinced my husband to cut cable so we could save that extra $80 a month. Cut expenses now so you can tuck money away for baby. If possible, try to start living on one income as an adjustment period, especially if you are planning to stay home with the baby.
To help you establish your budget, I recommend setting up various savings accounts to help you track your financial progress towards baby. Set up accounts for your emergency fund as well as insurance and anything else you want to be prepared for. We use online saving accounts to help us keep our money budgeted for various expenses. I’m a firm believer that you can’t have too many savings accounts if it helps you be prepared. We currently have 13 savings accounts…and are still adding more!
4. Save for insurance and the cost of delivery. First, you need to be sure you are ready for a baby insurance wise. Whose insurance will the baby be on and how much will you pay each month? Also, if you are planning to stay home, what will your insurance cost? Save and budget for these expenses now. Although we do have high deductible costs, out family is incredibly blessed in that Andy’s school still covers insurance for the worker, spouse AND children. It’s unfortunately becoming a rarity. We do still have to budget for the high deductible portion of our plan, which leads me to the second part of the tip.
I recommend saving up for the cost of delivery. When we got pregnant, our schools had just switched to a high deductible plan, which meant I knew we had to cover $5200 before we met our deductible (yikes!) but everything was covered after that. Our school covered $2000, so we put all of my piano earnings aside so we had the remaining $3000 ready to pay for all the costs when Nathan was born. It was a blessing because Nathan ended up being in the NICU for 4 days, and I had an emergency c-section so stayed at the hospital 5 days, instead of the typical two. I didn’t have to worry about costs once because I knew our insurance would cover everything and we had the cash ready to pay our deductible.
5. Start stockpiling diapers. Diapers can be one of your biggest expenses with a baby so start saving early. Since diapers won’t go bad, it’s easy to start buying diapers long before you are pregnant. We use disposable diapers, and thanks to shopping on diapers for almost 2 years before he was born, to date, I have spent less than $100 for ALL of my 19 month old’s diapers. Watch for great sales. I aim for $0.10 a diaper or less as my target price, and use my grocery budget to help me buy diapers. This will save you so much if you are practically planning ahead. I do have an article on stockpiling diapers with some helpful links to get you started. If you want to use cloth diapers, start building up a stockpile of those by watching for sales on various websites, cloth diapering re-sale sites or even on Craigslist.
Remember, babies aren’t nearly as expensive as everyone makes them out to be. You can breastfeed to save money on formula. Shop at at thrift stores and garage sales for clothes. Make your own baby food. The list is endless.
We did a lot to prepare financially before our son was born, but we could have done more. That’s always true. There is always more to do and save. It really is true that you’ll never be fully ready for a baby. That said, I believe these 5 tips will help give you a solid start to being financially ready for a baby.
What other financial tips would you give to others preparing for a baby? What did you do – or what do you wish you had done?